Healing The Family

One of the things that I have channelled recently which has given me greater understanding of healing is that when we heal ourselves, we affect the others around us. I have been aware for some time that healing ourselves creates a ripple effect to those who are close to us, because as we change and react differently and think differently, it effects a change in response and reaction from those around  us, helping old patterns to be released.

What I hadn’t really appreciated was that when a whole family heals at the same time the healing for the family is exponential as everyone is helping to heal everyone within that family unit. I have been working with my own family and seeing some amazing results and also with several family groups, decompressing their energy and then working with the different family members to help them clear their negativity and reach their potential. It is proving to be an exciting time and wonderful to watch families that were really dysfunctional, starting to work and grow together with new understanding of each other.

I have come to understand that when babies are born they connect to Source through their Mother and then that energetic connection should be realigned as the child grows up. Unfortunately this doesn’t always happen or only partially occurs due to the Mother being controlling or over protective or the child feeling very insecure in themselves. I have seen the effects of realigning these energies can have on a relationship between a Mother and ‘adult child’, making it a much more healthy adult: adult relationship. I also have a greater understanding about the connection with fathers and how that can affect a child energetically and so now work to realign those energies too.

My understanding of abuse has been widened too. It is far more than what is reported in the news. To me abuse is anything that we do or say to someone or ourselves which is not from the heart with love and for the highest good and we are all guilty of behaving in an abusive way at some point or another in our lifetime. Clearly the more obvious forms of abuse can have a great affect on someone but the milder forms too, over a period of time, can affect the way that we feel and respond because of the way they affect our energy systems. Clearing the energetic hooks and drains that are put into the energy system when we are unkind or unloving towards someone really does help people to step into their own power. I feel so blessed to be able to do this work and help so many people.

“Clearing the  Mother connection…”
I am so grateful to Sarah for identifying and removing an attachment to my mother that has held me back all my life. My Mum and I have always had an OK relationship but this has been marred by the fact that she has totally smothered rather than mothered me all my life. I was never allowed to do anything growing up and have always felt I couldn’t make my own decisions as they were always questioned or judged.  Even as an adult and a mother myself she has tried to control my life. Whenever I have tried to do my own thing I have always felt pulled back. The day following the treatment from Sarah I got up and felt a new sense of freedom and feel I can now be myself and live my truth. I have always tried to suppress my resentment as she is my Mum and I love her but I feel that I can now move on and I understand why things were as they were.  I have found that she now pays me compliments rather than pointing out my faults and I feel I have a new healthy, loving relationship with her.

S. I. Milton Keynes, Dec 2016