In my last newsletter I was guided to look at our primary relationship being with ourselves Your Primary Relationship is with Yourself and as a follow on to this, I have been guided to look at the importance of healing our relationships with those that we connect with and with Mother Earth.
Everyone that we connect with will have had a connection with us many times before and will be connecting with us because healing needs to take place on some level or because they have something to teach us or we have something to teach them.
The more of the deep energy work that I do, the more I am coming to understand what a tangled web of energy there is between us and those whom we connect with. What we see in the physical world is just the tip of the iceberg and this is why when you connect with someone you may get a good or bad feeling about them. What is interesting is that we may need to heal something relating to those we get on well with and have strong relationships with as well as those whom we don’t feel comfortable around.
For example, I had a healing recently where a past life was intuited relating to my oldest friend and myself. It was related to a life we had in tudor times where we were poisoned for information we were passing to someone relating to religious meetings taking place in secret. I had never felt that there was anything major that needed clearing between myself and this person but of course I was looking at it from a slightly different perspective, in that we might need to clear something between us when actually it was something that we had experienced together that needed to be healed. It will be interesting to see what kind of effect this healing will have on us both.
As I mentioned in my last news letter, all too often we have attachment to other people which will have originated in other lifetimes. I have come to understand how we often repeat the same scenarios and lessons over and over again with the same people all be it that we may each be in different roles.
What this does though is ingrain the pattern and programme( belief) deep in our energy so that we automatically react in the same way when the right triggers happen. This then stops us from learning the lesson or we only partially learn it. I can still remember the words of one of my brothers after his marriage broke down some 20 years ago. he said to me ‘We are our parents until we stop and think!’ This piece of insight just shows how are belief system can be passed down from our parents and then we pass it onto our children if we don’t actually think about what we are doing and saying. Indeed we can have a belief system that runs right along the ancestral line because no one has looked at it and questioned it and gained insight into what needs healing to change it. It has become an accepted trait within the family.
When we have attachment to others we can find ourselves being moved ‘off purpose’ and following our ‘shadow purpose’ ‘Are you “on purpose” or following your shadow purpose? especially if we look to others for advice/guidance. Indeed parents can push their children in the wrong direction, because they didn’t fulfil their own dreams, so they try and live them through their child instead, which can lead to all sorts of issues.
When we are truly working from a place of unconditional love then all our relationships need to be free from attachment, whether that is with our parents, siblings, children, friends work colleagues or anyone else that we connect with.
When we are free from attachments then we are free to have authentic relationships with not only ourselves, but all those people that we connect with. An authentic relationship is one where we are able to trust ourself or the other person, where there is no judgement, where we accept ourself or the other person for who we/they are, where there is mutual respect, where there is compassion, unconditional love and honesty.
For us to be able to be ‘on purpose’ then we need to have an authentic relationship with ourself first of all and then with those around us. Where we don’t have authentic relationships it can lead us to being pushed off purpose and following our shadow purpose rather than our true purpose.
Whilst I have focused on our relationships with ourselves and others so far, what I have also come to understand is that it is also important for us to start having an authentic relationship with the Earth if we are to move forward as a collective into a new way of being.
Each of us needs to look at our relationship with the Earth and heal it wherever we have been involved in things that have been harmful to her, helping us to move back to working in harmony with her. The Earth has provided us with a home and a setting to learn many lessons and really grow on a spiritual level and yet she has been abused by humans for a very long time.
The balance of male and female energies needs addressing so that we move out of a patriarchal system into a place where male and female energies are completely balanced so that we can be authentic whether we are male or female as our human body is just an expression of an aspect of our soul. Our soul is complete so the male and female energies need to be in balance and if they aren’t then it is an indication that healing needs to take place to bring back balance.
Whether you are aware of it or not we are going through a very big energetic shift which is moving us into a more heart centred way of being. Issues that need to be addressed and healed are being brought to the surface for us to heal. Relationships are being tested as we are being coerced by the energies coming into the planet into looking at them and seeing what needs to be healed and as we look at our relationships with ourselves and others we also need to address our relationship with the Earth. Each of us needs to recreate an authentic relationship with Earth so that we work in harmony with her and treat her with the respect and love that she deserves. It is therefore important that our relationship with Earth as individuals and as a collective is healed as well so that we can create a world that is filled with true love, compassion, joy and peace.
We will be exploring our relationship with ourselves, others and Mother Earth and whether we are ‘on purpose’ or following our shadow purpose in more depth in my workshop on Sunday 13th May. For more details please see below or go to Creating Harmony in your Life and on Earth
