One of the things that is important when you are in human form is that you are responsible for your thoughts words and actions. Responsibility is something we need to be teaching our children from a young age so that when they become adults they are fully responsible for themselves.

All too often people either don’t want to take responsibility for themselves or their life and will throw blame in every direction except that of themselves, or they become over responsible, taking on things that are the responsibility of others.

What we actually need is to bring any over responsibility or lack of responsibility back into balance. What I have recently realised is that this actually needs to be cleared energetically along ancestral, blood and family lines to create that balance.

When I look at my own family, my mother was under responsible whilst my father was over responsible. I have been over responsible and both my children are. Their father though was under responsible. So the energies of responsibility have been cleared along all ancestral, blood and family lines, so that as the energies realign those of us that are over responsible will recognise where we are being over responsible and step back and those who are under responsible will then step up and take on what they are responsible for.

If you connect with someone that doesn’t want to take on responsibility it is easy to over compensate by becoming over responsible. Equally if you connect with someone that is over responsible then it will create a situation where you may become under responsible.

The energies of responsibility need to be cleared along the ancestral, blood and family lines so that those who are over responsible are able to step back and not take on responsibilities that aren’t theirs. This then allows the person being under responsible to step up and take responsibility for everything that is theirs.

When we are willing to take responsibility for our thoughts, words and actions we are being authentic. If we are not happy with what is happening in our lives we need to first of all take responsibility for the situation and then go inwards to discover whats blocking what we want to achieve. When we point the finger outwards we are not taking responsibility and are projecting our issues onto others or distracting ourselves from the issue that really needs to be addressed.

Healing can be an uncomfortable journey as it means looking at ourselves and addressing our issues on as deep a level as possible. It has become more and more apparent to me that many issues are passed from one generation to another and so need clearing energetically not only for the person having a healing with me but for the family and ancestors as well. A lot of my work now involves healing the family as well as my client.

There are a lot of very intense energy shifts happening on the planet at the moment. This cycle of them started on the 2nd February and I feel will continue at this intense level until the spring equinox around the 20/21st March.

These energies are pushing people to address their issues and many relationships are feeling the strain and breaking down. I was recently asked why so many people are splitting up and it is down to the energies pushing people to become authentic and heart centred. I feel that it is also linked to the fact that most couples are in karmic relationships rather than relationships of true love. This is because many people misinterpret what their gut is telling them and are disconnected from their heart. They are also caught up in the notion of romantic love and the ‘idea of being in love’ without understanding that that creates attachment. All too often what pulls them together is soul recognition from previous lifetimes because the souls want to heal and often sexual energies are used to manipulate the situation and keep them together. Many people are completely entangled with each other energetically and all of this needs to be cleared for them to be able to see whether the relationship is authentic or not and therefore whether they should continue with it or not.

I feel that the intense energies that we are experiencing at the moment are bringing all kinds of issues to the surface for people that they have previously ignored or not seen as important to deal with and suddenly things become chaotic and feel insurmountable. People then find themselves in chaotic situations that they have created but all too often project blame outwards rather than acknowledging responsibility for their part in the situation and then going inward to discover what the real issue is and where it originates from.

The energy work that I do with Cosmic Heart helps to get to the root cause of the problem so that it can be cleared energetically. As the energies realign it makes it much easier for people to make the changes in their lives that they need to, to be able to move forward.