Its interesting how a childhood memory which may have seemed insignificant at the time can have a great impact on you and your life.

I have a client called Rebecca who has agreed to me sharing her experience during a healing with me recently. She had previously told me that her relationship with her father had been poor and that she had ended up walking away from him as she couldn’t deal with the toxicity of it.

We agreed that we needed to clear the father connection so that energetically she could clear her relationship with her father in this lifetime and any father she has had in any other lifetime.

As I worked on her I asked her soul to forgive everyone that had ever been a father to her for anything that had been said or done that wasn’t from the heart and had therefore caused pain or upset.

I went on to retrieve soul fragments and energy where they had been taken from her by anyone who had ever been her father and also to return energy that she had take to them as well. ( When ever we engage in any kind of control drama we are taking energy form people, so if we try and manipulate them or we have an argument energy is being taken from one person to another). I also removed hooks and drains that had been put into her by anyone that had ever been her father. Hooks and drains enable us to continue to drain people of energy and have some control over them.

I continued by checking for vows and contracts that had been made and no longer served them and then went on to cut all negative ties between Rebecca and anyone that had ever been a father to her.

I continued working intuitively clearing deep energy blockages that I was guided to until I felt the healing was complete.

When Rebecca sat up there were tears in her eyes and she said that a child hood memory had come to the fore during the treatment.

She said that she must have been about 4 or 5 and that she remembered being at her grandparents house. She went to the bottom part of the garden with her father and her grandad to the aviary that her grandad had.

When they had finished she followed her father and grandad out of the bottom section of the garden and was told to shut the gate. She struggled to shut it properly as she wasn’t big enough to do the latch properly. She couldn’t shout for help as her father and grandad had walked on ahead and were totally oblivious to the fact that she couldn’t shut the gate properly. She pulled it over but hadn’t put the latch on it properly.

Later on they discovered that her grandparents dog had got out. Rebecca was blamed for it and her father was very unkind to her about it.

She then realised that she double checks and triple checks the house when she leaves it because she has a fear of her own dogs getting out.The fear was clearly connected to this incident.

She was also able to see that the adults and particularly her father were projecting their stuff onto her, that small child, and blaming her for the gate not being shut properly because they knew that they shouldn’t have left her to do it on her own and so knew that it was their fault that the dog had got out.

This memory was deep within her psyche and it was the clearing of the father connection that brought it to the before and gave her a much deeper understanding of what had happened and how it had actually been affecting her ever since.

One of the things that we could do next time that she comes for a healing is some work to help her inner child to understand that it wasn’t her fault.

This experience shows how something quite small can continue to have a big impact on you , creating patterns of behaviour that appear to have to real rhyme or reason for being there.

It will be interesting to see how Rebecca progresses. I suspect that she will stop having to check that she has locked up properly before she leaves the house once the energies of the healing have settled and realigned.