With a New Year just around the corner, it is an opportunity to look at what we truly want from and in our lives. One of my clients said to me a few weeks ago that she saw it as a time to ‘forgive yourself for everything that didn’t happen but should have happened in the previous year’. As I said to her at the time that feels very limiting to me as that suggests that you have set expectations and are looking at the destination rather than the journey. When we are focused on the destination we aren’t allowing ourselves to see the other opportunities that may enrich the journey. We are also then berating ourselves for not having achieved what we wanted to when maybe the goal we set wasn’t actually for our highest good!
We may have several ‘purposes’ for each journey that we experience on Earth, for example a mother, a husband, a brother, a teacher, a marketeer, a healer, a business person, etc. You may find that you have one main theme, such as supporting others, or teaching others, for example and if you are fixed on the destination you may not allow yourself to be open to all the different ways that you can support or teach others which would offer you and your Soul additional growth. You may also find yourself in a situation where you are following your purpose to a degree but you aren’t happy and so you aren’t fully ‘on purpose’.
I see many people who are in situations where they settle for convenience and compromise rather than happiness. This isn’t just with intimate relationships but in their work life and social lives as well. I feel this is because we become ‘programmed’ to believe that we can’t have what we truly want, we have to make sacrifices in order to have a happy home life and work or that we can’t have a really demanding and successful career and a stable home life and yet we live in abundant universe that wants everyone to have everything that they truly want.
This universe is limitless and abundant and yet we live lives that are full of limitation. One of our biggest problems is that we are afraid of being our true selves and of stepping into our own power and being what we truly need to be. Many people will settle for compromise and convenience rather than step outside the box and allow themselves to be their greatest self.
As we move into 2019 we have the opportunity to review where we are, whether we are ‘on purpose’ and so what we want to achieve for the coming year to help us to move further on purpose.
We also have the opportunity more than ever now to identify our dreams and start to manifest them from the heart. The energies coming into the Earth are intense and are pushing us to heal and open our hearts. Those people who are already heart led will find that they are able to manifest what they desire a lot more quickly than they used to be able to and those who are trying to manifest in the old ways will find it no longer works in the same way. We need to learn to be in touch with our hearts and so that we become heart led in everything we do and say. When we are heart led and move on purpose everything drops into place and we easily move into a place of abundance.
As you move into 2019 look at what needs to be healed to allow you to move into a place of happiness. We all need to look at how we can Be what we want to see in the world ( ie peace, happiness, love) so that we can help to create that for us all as a collective. When we step into our greatest self we are able to be our true self and so then we can move out of a place of convenience and compromise and into a place of authenticity, love, peace and happiness.
