The current situation with the ‘lock down’ of this and other countries, because of the corona virus, is putting a lot of stress on many family relationships. The busy world that we have been living in until now, has created the perfect distraction from our relationships with others and so any issues that are affecting a relationship are not seen or are easily ignored. Now with the lock down and many people being stuck together in their environment 24 hours a day the issues that were hiding suddenly become apparent or escalate.

What is important to remember is that our relationship with others is an extension of the relationship that we have with ourselves and so, others are reflecting back to us issues that we need to address on a deep level in order to heal and reconnect with our heart and Soul and move forward properly. Sometimes our loved ones will be projecting their issues onto those around them and that will be because their Soul is trying to reflect the issues back to them in order for them to see them and address them.

I feel that the ‘lock down’ situation that we have, gives people the opportunity to identify and address any issues that they have with themselves which are being reflected to them by those that they live with. One of the biggest issues that I see with people who have healing with me is a lack of proper communication. This has been accentuated in recent years by the increased use of technology. People have forgotten how to talk to each other properly without a phone in their hand and if you take this a step further they have  forgotten how to communicate with themselves on a deep level.i.e Soul level.

The belief systems that have been drummed into people make them think that they are physical human beings first and foremost but in fact we are all spiritual beings having a human experience and we have all re-incarnated many many times on this planet.

It is my belief from the healing work that I do that where there are very toxic relationships, there are a lot of past life issues that need to be cleared energetically. People say that you don’t know what goes on behind closed doors but I would take that even further and say to you that what we see on the surface ( ie in the physical world) is just the tip of the iceberg. I often find lots of negative connections linking people and where there are toxic relationships they can literally be bound together with negativity that needs to be cleared for their relationship with each other and themselves to become authentic.

We are multidimensional, limitless beings of love  who have become so disconnected with ourselves, our Soul and Source ( the energy of unconditional love that we came from and are journeying back to) that we have forgotten that our outer world is created  from within. So if we want to really make big changes to our lives then we need to be prepared to do the inner work. I have found that to make the changes in life permanent there needs healing on many levels. For some there needs to be healing on a cognitive level as they need to acknowledge what happened and come to terms with it in the physical world. When you then add energy healing to the cognitive healing you take things to another level and when the energy of a situation is changed for the highest good bringing it to a place of truth then permanent changes take place and naturally come into being without having to make any effort to make the change.  When you change the energy of something and bring it to a place of truth you create a new reality. Some may call this a miracle but a miracle is just the correct alignment of energy.

For some these energetic changes may be subtle and may take some time to be recognised and for others there is a big shift which has a quick impact. I often get asked how many treatments it will take to address an issue and heal it completely and to me its like asking how long is a piece of string! In my own experience with my own deep healing I have thought that I have healed an issue completely only to find something else pop up to the surface thats related a few weeks or even months later. This is because we bury traumatic experiences in our energy and they start to surface when we are ready to address them, forgive ourselves and others and let go. I never advocate a certain number of healing sessions for anyone as I feel it needs to be their choice as to how many they wish to have facilitated by me.

It is important to remember that we cannot change anyone else, we can only change ourself, nor can we rescue anyone else. Everyone needs to take responsibility for their own healing, whether they are consciously aware of healing taking place or not. When I am healing issues within a family unit I ask the Souls involved to accept the healing and will also ask them to take responsibility for their healing at a Soul level.  Clearing negative energies linking a family unit can create a big change in the dynamics of the family.  What we find when we heal ourselves and clear the issues from our own energy is that we will no longer see those issues in those around us because the energy of the situation has changed  and so the dynamics change and the relationships become more authentic.

I have worked with a lot of people with relationship issues over the years and when the healing work has been done to heal the relationships with those around them and ultimately with themselves, the relationships have become more authentic ( ie they see it for what it truly is )  and so they have then been able  to see a way forward more easily either together or apart. Authenticity of a relationship doesn’t necessarily mean that it will get better, it means that you will be able to see it for what it truly is and so have clarity over whether it is a relationship that is for your highest good and will make you happy or not .

When I heal a relationship I ask the Souls involved to forgive each other and themselves. As the channel for the energy I facilitate the removal of any negative ties, hooks, drains that link them and the return of any energy, soul or heart pieces to their rightful owners that have been taken from them. The fear, trauma, pain, grief, guilt and memories of any traumatic experiences are cleared and then any past lives that are linked to what happened in the current life are cleared in a similar way, making sure that any negative ties to the live are cut. Any fear, trauma, pain, grief and guilt linked to the past lives are also cleared as well. Once these energies have been cleared the energy system is filled with love. As the energies realign which may take a few hours to a few weeks or even a couple of months, my clients will usually notice changes in their relationships with those around them and in their relationship with themselves.

I can think of one client in particular who was in an abusive relationship which she tried to leave on a couple of occasions without success. The healing work that we did cleared a lot of negative connections linking her to her partner and revealed lifetimes where she had been treated badly and controlled over and over again by him. As these lives were cleared energetically for her, her self-confidence, and self-worth grew and she realised that she had got caught up in the situation she was in, because she didn’t actually believe that she deserved to be treated  better. As her relationship with herself improved it also helped her to establish boundaries with what was acceptable with her partners behaviour. Then one day he overstepped her boundary and because she had done the inner work she was then able to walk away and not look back, knowing that because she had done the healing work she would not find herself in a similar situation in the future.

One of the things that people don’t realise, is that we keep creating the same scenarios with different people until we address the issues on a deep level within ourselves. So if you are in a stressful or even toxic relationship then you need to heal the issues that are being flagged up to you for the relationship to either get better or for you to be able to walk away and not draw in a similar situation with someone else.

I can think of another client caught up in an challenging relationship in the past and then having left that one and been on her own for a while, went into a new relationship and found she had drawn in similar circumstances although not as bad as before at the point when she came to see me. We have worked on the issues flagged up by the relationship and she told me recently that she knows that the healing work we have done together has helped the relationship grow in a positive way and made it much easier for them to be together constantly in the current look down situation.

If you have found that relationship issues have surfaced and are now being flagged up to you, because of the  lock down situation, and you feel ready to heal them on a deep level so that you can move forward then consider having some deep energy healing sessions to clear the negativity and heal those relationships. I am currently doing all distant/remote healing sessions which work as well as in person sessions.

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