Have you ever found yourself in a situation where there is an instant connection with someone which is very strong and you find yourself in a relationship with them, whether as a lover/partner or a best friend? Things seem to be hunky dorey to start with and then you realise that they are not as they seem. Arguments and upsets ensue as you start to realise that you have been knocked off your path and you are not where you know you need to be.

Over the last 18 months to 2 years I have experienced just that. Someone came into my life and made friends with me at a time when I was actually quite vulnerable as my father was seriously ill and I had been having problems with my teenage daughter. This person got close to me and became a ‘best friend’. 18 months down the line I found myself in a situation whereby my home had been taken over by this person and another ‘friend’, I had become isolated from my family and friends, lost my business and am in a job which does not make my heart sing.

I dealt with the situation and told the 2 people concerned to move out asap and then once they had gone sat and wondered how the heck I had got myself into such a situation. As I look back over the last 2 years I realised that my business started to go on a downward trend when these persons crossed my path, my problems with my children worsened again  and I ended up back in nursing a job which unfortunately I really dislike.

As I stepped away from the situation I could then see the manipulation and lies that had got me to where I am now but what I didn’t understand was why this had happened. Why had I got caught with a manipulative, controlling personality again? Hadn’t I learnt from the last one some 6 years ago?

As I chatted to a very good friend of mine on the phone we were given some past life information. I had had a life with both of these people about 2000 years ago in Galilee. The essential details that I will share was that in that life I was a very popular healer and one person was a man in that life and in love with me but I was in love with someone else. He was also jealous of my popularity and as he was quite a powerful man at the time, he isolated me, had me watched when he was away and stopped me doing my healing. The other person was my keeper and reported my every move back to the powerful man.

I realised that the drama had repeated in this life, except that it hasn’t completely as I have now dealt with the situation with the people concerned. It was a huge karmic debt owed to me and what I have realised is that it had been affecting me my whole life as that life seems to have been where a lot of my self-confidence had been destroyed. I had worked hard in this life to build my self-confidence but as soon as that connection was made it seemed to go.

The person concerned has commented on more than one occasion that they feel persecuted in this life… I feel that it is their karma to experience this as people were persecuted in that life as a result of their actions.

Having the understanding that I do has helped me to see that I need to clear everything connected with that life and I have had some reiki and been given assistance by the angels and Jesus to cut the cords and break all vows and contracts that had been made in that life.

I have come to see that the two most important things that we can learn as a human being are unconditional love and the power of forgiveness.

It is when you go through difficult times like this that you realise who your true friends are… They are the people that love you no matter what, they are the people who are willing to forgive you when you reach out to apologise.

As I come out of the other side of this I am coming to a place where I can forgive these people. I was given a message last night from the angels, whereby I was told to forgive them as they ‘know not what they have done’. I think this is very true of any situation where karma is being played out. The characters involved have no idea what is going on, on a conscious level and like me can find themselves unwittingly dragged into a vortex before they know what has happened. It is our higher selves and our souls that know what is truly going on and who have agreed to redress the balance of the karma. It is therefore important to forgive so that we are able to release all the negativity that has surrounded the situation we have been embroiled in.

These kind of situations drag our vibration down and as our vibration drops it becomes harder and harder to pull away from the situation and we draw in more negativity. Having dealt with the situation I have had some angelic reiki treatments to help clear my energy system and bring my vibration back up, so that I can move forward in the right direction.

The other people involved in the drama now continue on their own paths and the universe will provide them with the people and circumstances they need for them to learn the lessons they have agreed to learn. I have completed my part in all of this.

As a past life regressionist I realised that our past lives can have an impact on our current life but I think what I have experienced has really brought home to me how much our past lives affect our current life and when a past life needs to be cleared there is not a lot we can do to stop things happening as the connections are so strong we find ourselves in situations that we didn’t plan on being in. Indeed when things happen like this it forces us to look at ourselves and what has happened so that we try and understand what we had to learn. Forgiving ourselves is as important as forgiving the others involved.