I have been working with quite a few children recently and it is interesting to see how past lives can affect them.
I have worked with one small child recently who was terrified of being left on her own, especially at night when being put to bed.

When I did a healing for her I discovered that she had been orphaned in one life and abandoned by her father in another life. Once the lives were healed she started to become less frightened and happier about going to bed on her own.

On the whole children are less heavily patterned and programmed than adults but this is mainly due to the fact that they have had less life experiences in their current life and therefore less past life memories and programming stimulated by current life events or people. They can however, still have a lot to clear.

Healing is complex, and indeed I am only now discovering how complex, as we never have the full picture and are just clearing whatever seems to surface at each session. I am also finding that the more I clear from my own energy, the higher my vibration goes and the deeper into the energy system of others the healing energies that I channel are able to go. This is why working intuitively is so important, as you never know what is going to need to be healed. It is also why self-healing is key especially if you wish to be a practitioner.

I was touched by the insight of one set of parents recently, whose child I have been working with. This is what I was told by his father;
“It is not always that easy to see the bigger picture and ‘really ‘ understand our place in the way of things- really feel rather than just have an intellectual knowing. Even with my beliefs, I still need to remind myself that my son, isn’t just a child, but a soul that is quite possibly/probably way more knowing than his parents are. That our purpose isn’t to teach him how to conform and be the same as others and acceptable to them, but to help him become clear and connect with infinite love and be his true self”

To me this is a parent working from a higher perspective. Seeing his son as an equal even though in this lifetime he is still very young. Age has become way too important and really has no real meaning when you realise that we are all infinite and have been around for eons in one form or another. Indeed most people have had hundreds maybe even thousands of lives.

When we are working from the heart with love we are not looking for our children or indeed other people to conform to what society expects but to empower them to be their true selves and find the energies of unconditional love and peace within, by helping them to connect with their Soul and Source through their heart.

Decompressing your energy and healing with the energies of Cosmic Heart Energy Healing (CHEH) not only moves you ‘on purpose’ but also clears all the energies of patterning and programming that have been with you for many lifetimes, making you want to conform and be accepted by society. Healing with CHEH clears what is blocking you, so that you feel empowered to be your true self and to accept yourself for the beautiful being of love that you are.

When you can accept and love yourself unconditionally you can truly love others around you. When you are able to do this you empower yourself and those around you, including your children to be themselves and not be afraid to be different.

Whilst we all come from one Source and are beings of pure love in our pure form, we all have our individual gifts and these gifts need to be recognised and encouraged especially in children.

Children need to be allowed to be children as well as be allowed to develop their interests and gifts. When you see a child as a Soul rather than a child you are treating them as an equal who needs love and support to step onto their path and move ‘on purpose’.

Helping them to develop their gifts is far more empowering than making them feel inadequate because they didn’t do well in the tests at school.

Remembering too that children are as much here to teach us as we are to teach them and that often what they say needs to be heard by us.

I have had conversations with one of my granddaughters who clearly remembers things that have happened in past lives. Most people would dismiss these kind of things, thinking it was the child’s imagination, this is how they get shut down.

She has also picked up crystals and used them without me showing or teaching her… a gift that her mother and I have agreed needs to be encouraged as she grows up.

I remember as a child seeing something that I termed as a monster as it frightened me and I didn’t know what it was, under my bed. I got my father up and remember him telling me not to be so stupid as there was nothing there.

Having done energetic house clearances, I have found entities beneath peoples beds and now know that what I saw was very real!

We need to listen to our children as much as guide them as growth is a two way thing! As we empower our children and see them connect more with their Soul it will help us to see the importance of going inward too. We have incarnated into the families we are in, not only to balance karma, but to learn from each other, love each other unconditionally and empower each other to be the beautiful beings of love that we truly are.

It is time that children are recognised as the wise beings that they truly are, as most of the smaller ones are more connected with themselves, Source, the universe and earth than any adult. They have so much that they can teach us as well as us teaching them if we take a step back and listen!

When we love unconditionally we empower others around us to be the beautiful beings of love that they truly are, but to love unconditionally you must first open your heart centre and learn to love yourself.