Mary is a lady in her late 30’s who had been for different sorts of healing over the past few years. She had found that the different healing modalities had helped but every now and then the same issues would come to the surface again.
She came to have her energy decompressed and a healing a few weeks ago and found immediate changes in the way that she felt and the way that her body felt to her. She subsequently came for further treatments as she was very aware of the benefits of having Cosmic Heart Energy Healing from the experiences that she had with each healing with me.
This last time when she came to see me she explained that she had always had issues with men and indeed was aware of a deep fear of men and especially their physical strength. Her brother had bullied her as a child and used his physical strength to do this. I felt that the relationship with her brother had re-ignited her fear of men which I felt was related to the way she had been treated by men in past lives.
I explained to her that I felt that the first thing we needed to do was clear the past lover/partner connection as I felt that the majority of the abuse relating to men came from intimate relationships with them in the past, even though it was her brother’s behaviour in this life that had sparked the fear again.
When clearing the past lover/ partner connection, I include asking the person to forgive all past lovers and partners ( any lifetime, dimension or plane of existence) for any thing that they have done or said that has not been from the heart, and then ask them to forgive themselves for anything they have done or said that has not been from the heart. Energy and soul fragments are then retrieved, any energetic hooks and drains are cleared, any old vows and contracts are broken and cleared and negative ties are cut to the people and to the life.
Forgiveness in any situation where someone else is involved is key. It doesn’t matter if you don’t know exactly who did something that caused you pain and upset as it is the intention of letting go of the toxic energy relating to what happened that is key. When you are forgiving someone or yourself, you are not condoning what was said or happened , you are letting go of the negative energies relating to what happened.
As I continued to clear the connection for Mary, I was aware of a lot of pain in her heart and as that was cleared for her and returned to Source, she told me that she was getting a pain in her right shoulder. I put my hands on her right shoulder and was immediately aware that she had been pushed violently against a wall and had broken her shoulder in another lifetime. I explained this to Mary and asked her to forgive the person who did that to her. I retrieved her energy and soul fragments relating to that incident and then was aware of her shoulder realigning itself energetically where it had been broken and the broken bones mending energetically.
As this finished she told me that she was getting a pain in her left shoulder. She explained that both her shoulders had caused her problems for sometime but that the pain in each of them was different. As I put my hands onto her left shoulder I was immediately aware that she had been swung by that arm and it had dislocated in a different lifetime. As I told her this she said that she felt she was younger when that was done to her. I agreed with her and told her that it felt as if she was 13 or 14 and had been forced into a marriage at a young age. She told me that her left shoulder always felt as if it was dislocated and not quite in the correct position. Again we went through the process of forgiveness, soul and energy retrieval and tie cutting and then I was aware of her shoulder energetically realigning itself.
As this completed Mary told me that she was aware of a crushing feeling in her chest and as I put my hands on her chest I was aware of her sternum being broken and her rib cage too. She told me that she felt as if she couldn’t breathe.I was aware that in that life she had been emotionally battered and broken as well and that this lifetime was probably the one that had been having the most effect on her in her current life. I reassured her, reminding her that these were past life memories that we were clearing and healing and then once again went through the forgiveness, soul/energy retrieval and tie cutting process.
Then all the broken bones were realigned and mended energetically for her. As this came to an end she told me that she had pain in her jaw.
When I put my hands on her jaws I was aware of another life where she had been abused by her partner/husband and this time her face had been battered. I was aware of not only her jaw being broken but her eye sockets and cheek bones as well. We went through a similar process to the ones we had done to clear the other lifetimes and then the bones started to realign energetically and heal for her.
She was not aware of any other areas of her body relating to abuse in a relationship hurting, and intuitively I was aware that we had healed the lives that had been key and affecting her relationships with men. I was then able to cut all the ties with all the ex partners and lovers in any lifetime for her so that none of her previous intimate relationships will be able to have any kind of effect on her in the future. I then asked for her energy system to be filled with divine love so that the healing process could continue and any residue negative energies from the intense work that had been done would be cleared for her over the coming weeks.
When Mary was ready to get up from the couch she told me that she now understood the relationships she had had with men in this life and why she had attracted the ones she had. She also now fully understood where her deep fear of the physical strength of a man came from.
When she stood up she could feel that her body had changed, she was able to stand more upright and her body felt more relaxed and less tense. She informed me that she would let me know how she progresses over the next few weeks.
The energies that have been affecting her have been completely cleared from her energy system so now she will be able to move forward and find a fulfilling intimate relationship if she chooses.
For those of you who are healers,this case study,shows how important it is to listen to your client if they suddenly experience something during a healing and to trust your intuition. When you work intuitively you are able to help your client on a much deeper level and when you work with the energies of love through using Cosmic Heart Energy Healing (CHEH), the healing that takes place will be on a deeper level and so can have a more profound effect for the client.
It has taken me some time to work at this level and be able to do clearings for people like this and the key to this is my own self-healing. Self-healing, helps to lift your vibration and open your heart when you work with the energies of love through CHEH. When you are working from the heart you connect more easily with your Soul and Source and then your intuition becomes stronger allowing you to help people on a deeper level.
I still work on myself regularly through treating myself and working with friends who work in a similar way to me. This to me, is as important as brushing my teeth!
